Yes I had to write this because I work all week with a man who is head over heels for his lady. He thinks about her and talks about her. He brags about her and worries about her day in and day out and has the worse case of puppy love I have ever seen. I think this is pretty cool since they have been together four years and he acts like he just fell for her this week.
Okay my Coworker is totally head over heads for his girl and it really shows. In fact he's so smitten it's hard to tell if it's cute or annoying. Oh yeah I remember it's both. And that's pretty cool. Why because he's young and in LOVE. And if you didn't know My friend and spoke to him for any period of time you'd know he was head over heels, why? Simple my fellow Lovers of LOVE he will tell you without meaning. Is he trying to flaunt it? No. Is he trying to hide it? No. If you have ever had a friend hopped up on LOVE you know the signs. 'And yes we've shown them too but this isn't about us is it's about THEM' One: You will find your friend can not make it through a story weather it's them or you telling it without finding a why to reference it back to their sweetie. Two: They will find a way to 'My Boy/girlfriend' ever 20 to 30 words they speak. Three: They do the dreamy sigh randomly throughout the name and check their phone for texts. Four: Until you meet your friends love you will hear "I can't wait for you to meet him/her." A LOT and they do mean it. They can not wait. 'Again I am not dissing I went through this stage myself Though I'm sure with total grace and elegance ;)' And five : When they know their about to see the special somebody they grin so big it hurts your face in sympathy. Yes I had to write this because I work all week with a man who is head over heels for his lady. He thinks about her and talks about her. He brags about her and worries about her day in and day out and has the worse case of puppy love I have ever seen. I think this is pretty cool since they have been together four years and he acts like he just fell for her this week. Hey Guys Please feel free to share, Like, tweet or comment. And if you do comment Who else out there remembers going through this stage themselves when looking back?
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Hi guys you may not know this about me but I'm a wife and the mom of a wild little boy I know how demanding it is and how distracting it is for your LOVE life. I also work outside the home as well as write. It doesn't leave a lot of time for much romance and even less when my handsome husband is working two jobs as well. Hey it's the way things are these days. But I will not live without ROMANCE ladies and gents and neither should you. It helps balance our lives a little. Now don't get me wrong first and for most I'm a mom I admit I give my kid all the time I can scrape together, beg barrow or steal but I also TRY not to let my poor hard working man feel neglected. Don't get me wrong the BEST everyday Romance is when your guy brings you home a flower he picked because it reminded him of you or buys you a Tea for one set because he knows you still miss the set the magically went missing last fall 'Yep stuff he does for me in between Job A and Job B :) he's great too. But enough bragging because ladies we can't always be the ones swept off our feet because it can be pretty awesome to be the one sweeping too at times. And when there's no time for anything and money is stretched thin. Guys aren't always sure what they can do. Not their fault. It's true I have a lot of male friends, cousins, siblings, ect to draw this info from do all of them want to be romantic heck no but the ones that do feel like they have to spend a ton of money to do it well. and they don't want to do it if they can't do it right and to them that means time and money.
Is time and money great for Romance YEAH. But it's not required. If you if yours and your lover's time tables don't allow for a real date night 'He's off Wednesday and Friday your off Monday and Sunday' don't plan for a date night. Plan us time instead. If it's a couple of hours after the kids are in bed and a couple hours before he has to go to his night sift take the time to draw him a nice hot bath, light a couple of candles on the counter and join him for a little 'Cleaning up' before he has to leave. Or on your day off 'if you can get one' Pack up you darling children for a sleep over at grandmas, do a quick spring clean 'because you will both be more relaxed if there aren't toys and work stuff all over the living room, dining room' and fix a late/early dinner or lunch for when ever he gets home. Make a simple dinner for the two of you. Brake out the wine and those chocolates you've been hiding from the kids and forget yourselves for a couple hours. Even if your tired it can be worth it. I'm not saying do this everyday. But taking a little time once or twice a week to do this can do wonders for how you feel about yourself and your relationship. And some times after you have kids it's just good to remember you do have a relationship too. I know these are really basic but it's stuff we all forget about in the day to day grind we can do to remind him and ourselves we're still living breathing, needing humans and not just the roles we play day in and out. Just do whatever you can with the little time you have to remind him he is MAN and you are Woman. He leans in close. Your heart is suddenly beating so fast your sure it's not healthy. You're practically breathing in each of minty breath he lets out. You tilt your head up in anticipation your lips part in a sigh. He dives in his lips tender and firm as they conquer your own. His tongue invades that warm cavern that is your mouth while your own eager muscle quickly welcomes him with vigor. Your tongue grazes over his teeth and tastes his lips before succumbing. He brakes away and gazes longingly into your eyes. You are the only woman in the entire world for one perfect moment.
Hey guys I almost forgot check out this fan page sharing the love for LOVE :) Love and Romance
Okay that's it. Just the way I see it maybe you disagree or have other ways to add if so cool please do. But those are the top four for me. I hope everyone out there enjoyed.
Isn't that always the way. you sit down and plan to write and then you check your email, refresh your coffee, check facebook, play on twitter, take a break to read that new novel you just got for your kindle 'Under the Midnight moon by Jean Joachim is my current read so you know' next thing you know your washing dishes and fixing your kid lunch and not a single new word is written. Sigh. Face-palm. But I will press on I must finish three pages today before I start dinner it is a goal I set and the only way I ever finish a book is with such goals. Now I just have to write them around chasing a artistic three year old away from nail polish and working my other job. Fun fun. But Oh well I love it.
Chocolate covered Strawberries at home Hello again my wonderful readers. I thought I'd share a Sweet Idea with you all to bring a little romantic fun home with you. Chocolate covered Strawberries with out braking the bank for the luxurious and sensual treat. First you get yourself a big bowl of plump, ripe strawberries. Then you wash them really well and gently dry them with a paper towel. Once you've done that pop the mouthwatering temptations into your freezer for 15 minutes. After that time pull the frosty tidbits out and spread them out on a plate or another surface you don't mind getting a little chocolatey. 'This will work best if you plate is chilled' Then it's time for the magic. Magic shell that is. Shake your magic shell bottle vigorously then thinly coat the side of your strawberries facing up. Let the strawberries sit for forty second or until the chocolate is firm to the touch. After this turn each strawberry over and repeat. Then you have a fun treat to share with your sweetie.
What you will need : Strawberries Magic Shell 'The flavor of your choice' A Plate Paper Towels A Freezer Well that is my sweet Idea for the week. Let me know how it turns out for you. And please remember to Like, tweet or share. My blog is new and could use a little LOVE from all you lovers of love out there. A kiss is a lovely trick designed Something every romance writer knows and many a woman. I'm currently working on a book where a sweet kiss would be most welcomed by my poor suffering heroine as she comes to terms with the fact her marriage is over and she's in love with another man.. who has been dead for more then thirty years. It is flowing wonderfully and I pray it gets picked up quickly so I can share this sweet and spooky tale with you soon. How can she be in love with a dead man when her own life is just beginning? She has a new baby. A life without her frightful ex-husband but the draw of that strong male presence just wont fade. Her body burns at just the thought of one real true Kiss from her sweet haunting hero.
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